Weekly Visit:

Chad's Birthday Barbecue:

Dwayne, Connie & Chad

Dwayne, Connie, Chad, Todd, Cash, April & Mike

Mom, Me & Dad

 

We celebrated Chad's birthday Sunday with a barbecue.  The day was extra special as Mom and Dad were able to come down.  Momma hasn't been able to get in my house for months.  Dwayne and Chad had a ramp for her wheelchair and she's now able to walk some on her own.  Very happy for that.

Todd barbecued and Michael, my nephew, helped set everything out.  Desmon was with Chad and happy to see Mom and Dad there.

My 90 year old Father washing dishes!

 
After eating, my dad started rinsing off the dishes.  Mom said he was just showing off so we would all brag on him.  I told Dwayne what she said and he said she's probably right.  Which she was, but no matter, how precious it is that your dad is helping clean the kitchen at the age of 90?
We had a nice evening visiting and I'm sorry to say, I accidentally deleted the picture of the family with Desmon in it. 

I am grateful for my son's birthday and the celebration with family.

Chad Anthony:

December 12, 1978
I have so many favorite pictures of Chad. Here is just a few of them.
First day home from the hospital.

People used to tell me I looked too young to have a baby. I would get so mad, thinking I was not young, I was 21 years old!! Now when I look at this picture of me holding Chad on the horse, I think I look around 14 years old. Funny how time changes your perception of how you look or how old you feel.

First Christmas Card:

Picture at Grandma & Grandpa Elrod's and Chad's 1st Birthday:

Chad and Dwayne.

We were so excited at the birth of our first child. Chad was due on December 12th and promptly arrived on his due date. When Chad was born his hair looked platinum instead of blonde, it was a really pretty color. I worked for Dr. Stricker at the time of Chad's birth and he came to see us in the hospital. (Quite a first for Dr. Stricker as he normally didn't remember any of his help's first names) He looked at Chad and said, "Well, Snookims you have the same color of hair as mine". Dr. Stricker had more of a silver color of hair than gray. That was probably one of the longest conversations I've had with Dr. Stricker. I feel honored that he came by to see us.
Chad was an easy baby to care for. He loved being around people and would reach out to most anyone. We joke now that that is still a trait of Chad's, never meets a stranger and is always reaching out to someone. Chad was very obedient. He minded very well and usually just a strong word or a "look" would be all it took to make him behave. Chad has always been a little grownup. We went camping at Moreland's Resort when they boys were small and Chad would go out with Dwayne at midnight to check the trot lines. He was only 3 1/2, we never thought anything about him going. He just always seemed older than his age and we treated him as such. Chad loved helping Dwayne work, anything his Dad was doing, he was right there beside him. That is one think I miss most about us having our own construction business; Chad at a young age running the backhoe, helping Dwayne with any job, big or small.
Chad is a very caring person. He still gives hugs to his grandparents and even today I never see Chad without him giving me a hug. Chad has the biggest heart, anyone in need, he is there to help them. Chad is exceedingly protective of his brother and sister and I am very proud of him for his loyalty to his siblings and family.
It is so hard to believe my first born child is now 36 years old.
Happy Birthday, Chad!!

My Dear Friend, Carmen:

 

I lost a precious friend this week.  Carmen and I used to go to Sunday School together.  There is quite an age difference and we hit it off.  Our lives were quite different also.  Carmen's daughters were grown, she had a career, and although as nice as can be, appeared to be prissy.  (Looks can be deceiving, which is why we (I) shouldn't judge by appearance) Wherefore, I was a stay at home Mom, kids not quite grown up yet and though I'm very talkative, shy at meeting people.  We were just good friends.  Sometimes I would stop to visit Carmen if I was making a trip to Jefferson City.
I called her sometime over the summer and told her next time I had an appointment I would stop by.  She said, "Oh, please do".  I stopped last Tuesday.  I was sure in a state of shock.  I didn't know Carmen had had multiple health issues and major surgery since I spoke with her last.  A girl answered the door and I said I was there to see Carmen.  She said she was in the bedroom.  I thought that was odd, so I asked if Carmen was sick.  She said she wasn't.  I thought Carmen was taking a nap and she would tell her I was there.  She said I could go on in the bedroom.  SHOCK!!  Poor Carmen was in a hospital bed and you could tell she had had a stroke.  (Remember those symptoms so well from Grandpa Andy).  I walked over and held her hand.  Her face lit up and she grasped my hand and held it the whole time I was there.  She tried to talk to me but darn it, I couldn't make out what she was saying as hard as I tried.  I'm sure she felt frustrated.  I went ahead and carried on a conversation about April and my new grandbaby, talked about Shelby's wedding, etc.  She had tears in her eyes as I was leaving and held my hand in a tight grasp.  I am SO GLAD I stopped.  There are times we are in a hurry and think, I'll stop another time.  But I had made up my mind that morning I was stopping.  Whenever you get a nudge to visit someone, that nudge is probably from God.  I have found that to be true more than once.  I will miss Carmen, but I'm glad her suffering on Earth has ended.

I am grateful for the chance friendship I developed with Carmen.

Wonderful Weekend:

Friday:
We went out to eat at Sput's with our friends, Kim and Ramey.  It's nice to get out of the house and see others.  We get in a rut of just staying home and really need to get out more.
Saturday:
I did chores around the house and Dwayne started digging post holes to put in our new yard fence.  Made me a happy person as he started last Spring!!
Mid-afternoon, Dad called to say Mom was really upset over Wayne and he was afraid she was getting sick again for me to come up.  Judy was already there and we tried to console Mom.  As weak as Mom was, she wanted to go to the cemetery.  (It was cold and misting out)  She had never been to the cemetery yet and wanted to go put Christmas flowers on Wayne and Mark's graves.  Troy came up and helped us with safely getting Mom to the van.  When Troy was younger, he spent a lot of time with us.  Every Memorial weekend, we would go around to cemeteries and put flowers on our friends and families graves.  First thing we would do was clean all the weeks off and clean the tombstone.  Troy and I automatically went to the grave to clean off old flowers and straighten things up.  Mom did good while there.  We then went to the Davis Cemetery to put flowers on Mark's grave.  Mom can't walk very far so Dad drove right up through the cemetery to get as close to Mark's grave as possible.  Once again, Mom did well.  I think all the emotions of losing Wayne caught up with her and the crying made her weak.  We all get scared everytime she's weak she'll get pneumonia again.
It was actually a healing day for all of us.

 

Troy, Judy, Mom and Dad

Saturday night, we went to our friend's, Mike and Susan's for a Christmas party.  Once again, good to get out of the house and catch up with friend's.  I admit I'm a wee bit jealous over Susan's Christmas decorations.  They are beautiful and she adds to them each year.  My excuse is she works from home so she has more time.  lol
Sunday:
Out of the house again!!  Dwayne and I drove to St. Elizabeth.  April and I went shopping at the lake and Grandpa babysat Cash.  We had a great time shopping and eating lunch.  We used to do this all the time.  Although, we love Cash, it was nice to just shop and not juggle getting him in and out of the car seat and shopping carts.  My Christmas shopping is done.  Mike fixed supper of sloppy jos for us.  Watched TV and then headed home.
Monday:
My weekend wasn't over yet.  I took my last vacation day and wrapped presents.  Took a nap and just enjoyed my day off.

I am grateful for family and friends.  I need to get out and visit more often.

Weekly Visit:

Playing with toy Uncle David got him

Grandma Nonnie and Cash

 

Dwayne had a cold and didn't go with me to April's.  Cash wasn't too excited when I got there.  I told him Papa didn't come over.  He kept looking around me to the door looking for his beloved Papa.
See how I rate.....   lol
April wanted Christmas pictures taken in front of their Christmas tree.  Cash was having no part of it!
We tried two different times but no luck.  I think Cash might be in the temper tantrum stage.  But then again his ear is still bothering him so he just might not be feeling well.
I remember when I was pregnant with April, a friend told me she hoped I had a girl but girls whine and cry, throw temper tantrums, etc.  I smugly thought, your does but mine won't!!  Oh, how I ate those words!!  I always though a parent could control their child when they had temper tantrums but I sure learned a valuable lesson-some kids just have temper tantrums.   I tried spanking April, sitting her in another room and walking out, holding her tight, speaking sternly to her to stop.  All to no avail.  Thankfully, that phase didn't last too long.
Be careful what you say or think, it just might come back to bite you.
Cash and I still had fun tossing balls back and forth and playing with his toy cell phone.  Can't believe how a grandchild can make you all silly and goofy.  I guess that's me, the silly goofy Nonnie.
He still gives me aws (kisses) and hugs.

I am grateful for a safe journey over to St. Elizabeth and back on dark, misty roads.

My first sister-in-law:

Pat and myself-years ago.......

 

Pat is my brother, Wayne's first wife.  I was only ten when they got married and I idolized Pat.  Pat and Wayne had just met each other in December and got married I think January 1st of the next year.  Then Wayne was shipped overseas to Vietnam.
Pat would come out to the house often and most times I would go home with her for the weekend.  I have such fond memories of those times.  Pat and her cousin, Patty Mae would let me tag along with them on outings.  I loved Patty Mae and in my ten year old mind, I was going to name a little girl Patty Mae one day.
Pat's Mom, Gladys was such a likeable person.  She worked as a cook at UMR and then would come home and cook up a HUGE meal for whoever happened to be at their house.  They were a big family so there was always visitors.  We used to visit on weekends sometimes and the house would be full with Pat's sisters, Joyce and Judy's families.  They both lived in St. Louis and came home for the weekend.  Now I can see all the work Gladys did with cooking so much.  I don't think I have the stamina for all that.
Our first meal at their house, we ate in the dining room with the table set all formal.  I loved it!!  I hadn't been to a house with a dining room and it made quite an impact.  Their house was a huge rock house built by slaves in the 1800's.  The rooms were huge and truly was in the plantation style.
Now, back to Pat.  She has the same big heart as her Momma.  Her house is always open to any family member and she cooks for all of them, too.  The thing about Pat is she can't use her right arm.  She had polio as a baby and it affected her right side.  The arm and leg on the right weren't quite as large as the left side.  She never let it affect her.  She could empty gravy out of a heavy iron skillet easier than I can with two hands.  Gladys said after Pat had polio she made up her mind that Pat would have to become independent and I guess as we would say today, tough love.  Her family would get mad at Gladys as she wouldn't pick Pat up every time she wanted.  She said, no, Pat needs to learn to walk and do things on her own.  I don't think Pat would be where she was today if not for the love and guidance of her Mom.  People that don't know Pat had Polio wouldn't really notice.  But as Pat has gotten older, she limps more and I really think her arm bothers her but she would never let on.
Wayne and Pat divorced in the late seventies.  I was crushed!!  Pat and I (and Wayne) have always remained good friends.  Pat's son, Tim calls me Mom and Mom and Dad have always treated Tim as their grandchild.  They are Grandma and Grandpa to Tim.  Actually, Tim went to see Mom more in the hospital than my own sons did.
Wayne married my present sister-in-law, Bobbie in 2003.  As you all know, my brother, Wayne passed away in July due to a drowning.  Bobbie has diabetes really bad and cannot drive.  She stayed a couple months with my sister, Katie and they rode to work together.  Bobbie is getting a trailer but it's not available until April.  (Their house was very primitive and no running water).  Bobbie then went to live with guess who?  Wayne's first wife, Pat!!  Now that proves what a big heart Pat has.
I love my sister-in-law, Bobbie.  She says I'm her sister from another Mother.  We have a great relationship.  I think my first sister-in-law was like a first love.  Special and always holds a part of your heart.  It didn't hurt that she spoiled me, too!!  lol

I am so grateful for both of Wayne's wives and the joy they've brought to our family.

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Connie

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I love to read!! My family jokes that if I don't have anything to read I'll read a phone book. And they are right! Family, I would love to have grandkids but I guess that is not in the cards for me right now. I do enjoy my great nieces and nephews. We usually have a couple extra kids visiting every week. I do have "grandkids on loan" from friends Kenny and Shelley Allen. They're Blake and his little brother Nathan, we love having them over!

I think it's time I update my profile.  We FINALLY got a grandchild and not to brag or anything, he's the greatest!!  lol  We still have our not so little anymore "grandkids on loan" we see from time to time.  Blake is the oldest and him and I enjoyed watching Handy Mandy every morning before I left for work.  Nathan, what can I say about Nathan except he is the cutest little thing and quite a character.  They call me Nona and Shelley had a couple shirts made that says Someone Special calls me Nona.

We have also added Desmon to our life.  Chad took him in when his Mom (not Chad's girlfriend, just a neighbor) wasn't able to take care of him.  Desmon told me I'm his almost Grandma.  We refer to him as our grandson.  I am happy to say, his Mom is doing better and now has Desmon.  He's had a lot of adjustments in his short life but he's doing well.  Chad still gets him most weekends and he's always with us on holidays.

Life has a way with twists and turns throughout the years.  We finally got a grandson, Cash. Hopefully when I update in a few years we will have daughter-in-laws and more grandchildren.

I lost my brother, Wayne over the summer due to a drowning. (the sight of seeing my brother on the pond bank was almost too much to endure, but with Shelley being there with me and telling me to take deep breaths and letting me touch Wayne was so helpful.  Thank you, Shelley.)  And then almost losing my Mom the day of Wayne's funeral.  But we've endured and God gave us the strength to get through.  Mom's health is still precarious and Dad takes good care of her.

We've had our joys and our sorrows but overall great years since I started this blog in 2008.

Elrod Thanksgiving:

Elrod Thanksgiving

Loved playing in the leaves.

Cash and Braxton

Eating outside on the 30th of November.

Snow and sleet the next day.

I am grateful for the Elrod family and the love they've shown me through the years.

(Really missed Andy and Dodie this year.  I try to recreate some of the dishes she made every Thanksgiving.  Only Trevor and I ate the cranberry salad but it's a tradition so I make it each year)

Thanksgiving at Mom and Dad's:

Wednesday evening I made a not so smart trip to Wal-Mart.  I hadn't had time to pick up groceries for dishes to take to Mom's and also the whole Thanksgiving feast for Elrod Thanksgiving on Sunday.  The store wasn't quite as crowded as I thought it would be, but the food aisles were full of people trying to find what they needed.  I made several trips from the front to the back for items I missed.  I could have just skipped the morning treadmill routine.  (Doesn't seem to help anyway-I keep gaining more weight!!  But it keeps my heart healthier).

Thanksgiving:
Dwayne made his customary sweet potatoes to take to Mom's.  I made a couple dishes and away we went.  I wanted to get there early enough to help with everything.  Fortunately, (for me anyway) Kate and Judy had gotten there even earlier and had most everything done.  Mom makes the best stuffing.  Kate helped her get it ready.  Mom has to feel she is contributing to the dinner that she has always loved doing in the past.  I feel bad for her as some of her dependence is slipping away.  Dad takes excellent care of Mom, but he loves to brag on himself for what he does.  He does go way and beyond what I ever thought he was capable of doing.  Then Mom complains about the way he does something, hurts his feelings and they start arguing.  I hate that, but I understand where Mom is coming from.  For years she has done everything in the house and there was no praise, it was just something mom's did.  Now as we all make over Dad doing these things, in Mom's mind, it diminishes her doing the same things throughout her lifetime.  It makes her feel even more dependent on others and I think her lashing out is just due to her frustration.  It's a fine line in making Mom feel better-as she has been sick so much this year and to lose her oldest child to making Dad feel special for all he does.  People ask what we're going to do since Mom keeps getting worse.  Ride it out and   Mom and Dad are perfectly able to make decisions for themselves we're just riding it out and try to help out as much as possible.  A rough time, but we're making it.
Dwayne is always the turkey carver and this year he also washed the dishes while we all visited.   Dwayne didn't use to help as I was a stay at  home Mom and I thought I was suppose to do everything-and I did.  Since I've been sick, Dwayne has slowly started helping out to where now he helps tremendously!!  I appreciate his help so much but sometimes I feel a little guilty as I used to do it all.  Life takes a lot of twists and turns.
As for Thanksgiving, we had a lot to be thankful for.  It was a beautiful day.  The kids ran and played outside.  We were all there (minus Wayne, our first holiday without him) and all the grandkids but two were there.  Chad brought Desmon.  As soon as he came in the house, he went straight to Mom to give her a hug and then on to Dad.  We feel Desmon is a part of the family and I know he feels it, too.  Desmon came home with me and Dwayne for the afternoon.  While watching TV, he laid his head on my shoulder.  He's had a lot to deal with in his young life and I'm glad we're able to give him a sense of family and traditions.  He's a special little boy.
Cash wasn't in the best of mood.  Poor little guy had an ear infection which we later learned was a bursted eardrum.  I've had that happen before and it hurts like heck.  He still had smiles for everyone.

I am so grateful to have family and especially my parents to share a wonderful day of Thanksgiving.
We lost our dear Wayne this year but we've also had joys.  My great niece, Kara, had a little girl in October, Kennedy Reece.  Our family shares our sorrows and our triumphs.  This has been a trying year, yet we're so grateful for what we do have.

Weekly Visit:

Cash just gave me a kiss or "aws" as he says.

We went down a day early for our visit this week.  Thought since we would see Cash Thursday and then again on Sunday we might space it out a little.
Plus, Grandpa hadn't seen Cash in a week and a half and he was having withdrawals.  It's his own fault.  He didn't want to come in from deer camp last week to go see Cash.  I was in shock over that!  lol
I love these visits and the excitement Cash has when we (I mean Grandpa) get there.  Last night he walked right past me on to his Grandpa.  They played their take the hat off, throw it in the floor, pick it up and do it over again and again.  He still has a routine with Grandma of going around the room and pointing to each person in the pictures.  He's got Todd and Chad's name down.  Chad comes out more as Cha.  April said Todd before she even said Dada or Mommy.  Todd held her throughout the day when she was little and she was "his" baby.  When she was seven months old, she pointed to a picture on the coffee table and says, Dodd, Dodd.  They are still pretty close.
It's so fun to see from week to week how much he's learned and changed.

I am grateful for the opportunity to see our grandson each week.

Weekend Update:

Friday:
I normally fix calico beans for pre-opening night of deer season for the guys at deer camp.  This year, I totally forgot about it.  Mid-week, I was talking to Dwayne and he timidly asked he I was going to make the beans this year.  What, oh my goodness, I forgot!!  I told him I would fix them for the weekend.
Lizzy came over to watch TV.  While I was preparing to cook the calico beans, I got the sum of the week's activities.  Man, can that girl talk!!  lol  And fast, too.  You have to hang onto every word to keep up.  Love her; she filled a void I felt after April moved out.
I had saw on facebook a video on how to curl your hair with aluminum foil and a flat iron.

We didn't curl the bangs.  The curls turned out really cute.  I did small sections and the curls were pretty tight so we decided to try larger sections next time for a looser curl.  Much faster than a curling iron for each curl.

Saturday:

I went to April's for the day.  We went to Jefferson City shopping.  Cash did real well until we got to Apple Bees for lunch.  He was overtired and let us know it..........  Well, Grandma Nonnie finally just started walking around the restaurant with him.  It worked!  April had gone to the bathroom, so I sat on the bench by the front entrance and Cash had fun waving at people and seeing the "tuks"aka trucks outside.  We got our lunch and Cash ate his food and a good time was had by all!!  lol

I bought some new Christmas decorations.  I'm going to try to get more in the mood to decorate than I have the last couple years.  I used to have almost every surface decorated plus wrapping the pictures on the wall to resemble Christmas presents.  Don't think I'll go that far.  lol

Wrapping presents; I used to be so particular.  Every corner was folded just right, the ribbons matching the wrapping paper and so proud of myself when I got done.  My Mom told me when I was still at home that one day I wouldn't care so much about how the wrapping was done, I would just be glad to get them wrapped.  WHAT?  Was she crazy?  My packages would always be wrapped pretty.  How could she think such a thing!!   WELLLLLLLL, guess what?  I don't like to wrap presents anymore.  I get them wrapped but it's not near as much fun as it used to be.  I'm going to try to do better this year.  I bought some old fashioned looking wrapping paper and making my own bows like I used to do.  I'll let you know how it goes and if I stick to my guns.

When I got home, Dwayne hadn't picked up the beans yet.  (I was a little ticked)  But after about an hour, Dwayne and Todd came to get the calico beans.  Good, my beans get to go to deer camp again.

Sunday:

I literally did nothing all day.  I was going to go to church but fell asleep in the rocking chair and didn't wake back up in time.  I watched TV all day, took another nap in the afternoon and that was about it.  I don't feel guilty for napping.  My Mom always says I need the extra rest or I wouldn't be sleeping.  Love my Mom, she always (well, almost always....) says the right thing to make me feel better.  Despite looking normal on the outside, Lupus takes a toll on your body.  You can't really complain about it as people look at you and say you look fine to them.  Or if you're having an exhausting day and say you're tired, people say, I'm tired, too.  Uh, no, you don't understand.  I'm not just tired, I'm exhausted.  Dr. Pearson explained it to me one day as picturing myself walking around in quick sand all day.  That's how much more effort you need to put forth just doing normal things.

Whoops, kind of got on a rampage there!!! 

Dwayne came home just before dark with all his deer stories and fun they had.  This is Dwayne's vacation every year.  He works so hard all year and especially this year with lots of overtime.  How they find it fun to camp with several other smelly guys, I'll never know.  Give me my trip to Alaska anytime!!   lol

 

I am grateful for my family and a safe deer season.

Wordless Wednesday:

Weekend Update:

Friday:
Dwayne was super excited for deer season starting.  He takes the full week off and that's his vacation every year.  You'd think he was going to the World's Fair!  lol  After he left for deer camp, I went to Dad's so we could go visit Mom in the hospital.  She was doing better but still pretty short of breathe.
Saturday:
April had a hair appointment so I watched Cash.  He's pretty comfortable with our house now and goes straight to his small toy box.  And Mickey Mouse!  As long as Mickey is on, he's in a trance.
Dwayne conveniently came home deer hunting (to see Cash).  Cash always takes Dwayne's hat off and throws it in the floor and they repeat this several times.  Dwayne wears Cabela's crush felt hats.  He has an orange one for deer hunting.  Cash just stared at it but had no interest in playing their game with a orange hat.
Lizzy came over mid-morning.  April came home a little after noon and we had lunch of scrambled eggs and cheese.  When April was little, she loved eggs.  When she would be at Mom's, Mom would ask her how many eggs she wanted.  The answer was always twenty-eleven.  I guess that meant she wanted more than two.  It was cute at the time.  I asked her at lunch if she wanted twenty-eleven eggs and she looked at me like I was crazy.
We had a nice afternoon of visiting.  After April and Cash left, it was time for me and Lizzy to head out to church to work at the Fall Festival.  Lizzy has helped for the last three years.  The ladies just love her and she gets to run a lot of errands.  It was super busy this year and we were worn out when we got done.  But we had a lot of fun.  It's always fun with this group of people.
Home to TV and then off to bed.
Sunday:
Lizzy and I went to church.  Stopped off for frozen coffee on the way home.  As if we needed something cold to drink with it freezing outside and snow coming down!  We received about four inches of snow.  April sent me a picture of Cash's first snow this year.  They got a lot more in St. Elizabeth than we did.

                                      Cash's first snow of 2014
After we got home, we decided to watch a movie.  I fell asleep on the couch so I missed the whole thing.  We had a nice relaxing day of watching it snow and doing not much of anything.  I called Mom and told her I was going to come up but she said the roads were too bad and not to try it.  She said she was feeling better.
I've had a contact stuck in my eye for about four days.  It was really bothering me.  So, as cold as it was, I bundle up and head to Katie's for her to get it out.  Katie said only me would get out in the snow for a contact in the eye.  lol  We did have a good visit though.
One thing I'm not used to doing anymore is filling up the wood furnace.  Kept it going and filled it up before going to bed.  Sad to say, but the fire was out when I got up this morning.  Must have gotten down pretty cold to use all the wood.  Luckily for me this morning, Dwayne came in from deer hunting so he built a fire after I left for work.

I am grateful for family and friends and especially my Mom getting better.

Mom:

My poor Momma has been sick again.  She went into the hospital early Sunday morning with double pneumonia.  Katie said they had ten people in the ER room working on her.  I know Mom is getting worn out but I don't want to let her go.

She's had a rough year, several bouts of pneumonia, congestive heart failure getting worse, almost dying on the day of Wayne's funeral-which she wasn't able to go to.  So much to bare, but she keeps on truckin' on!  Momma is one tough cookie, she keeps fighting back the illness, the numerous falls she's had and losing Wayne.  I admire my Mom so much.

Mom and I a few years ago.

 

I am grateful for my Mom and fine example she is to her family.

Wordless Wednesday:

Weekly Visit:

 

We went last night instead of our usual Wednesday night visit.  Cash doesn't look like it in the picture, but he was running a low grade temperature and wasn't feeling well.

He fell asleep in the floor watching TV with Grandpa. Didn't even phase him when I picked him and took him to his Momma when we got ready to go.

His routine with Grandpa is to take his hat off and throw it to the floor (over and over again).  Our routine is to go around the room pointing at pictures and saying their names.  He says Cash for his pictures and Mom and Dad for their pictures.  Can't get him to name up yet.  He does say Nonna sometimes and when he stayed all night with us, he called Dwayne papa.

 

I am grateful for the opportunity to go visit the kids every week.

Wordless Wednesday:

Dad's 90th Birthday:

  

We went to Walnut Grove Saturday to my brother, Russell's house to celebrate my dad's 90th birthday. 
April, Lizzy, Cash and I rode together.  The ride down was great.  Uh, the ride home, not so much.
Cash was tired of riding and he let us know about it.  April said we're leaving him with Grandpa when we go Christmas shopping.  lol

Judy, Shannon; Russ, Mom: April, Cash

Dad

 

Mom, Judy, Russell, Connie, Kate, Dad

Russ & Mom

 

Nathan, Kristin, Me

April and Cash

 

We had a great time celebrating Dad's 90th Birthday.  A couple of our cousins and their wives came down.  Paul and Adra Spencer of Rolla, Dad's nephew; Otis and Donna Williams of St. James, Mom's nephew.

After leaving Russ's, we went to Springfield to do a little shopping.  I now have most of my Christmas shopping done.  That's a first for me in quite a few years.

We came home and Cash and Grandpa got to visit.  Dwayne is pure mush when Cash is around.

Sunday:

Dwayne and I seldom get any time to be together.  With his work schedule and then working on the farm on weekends, we don't take the time for just us.  We went to Jefferson City and ate at Red Lobster then to Menard's to pick out the color of shingles we need to put on the house.  What, we need shingles already?  Dwayne, "Connie, we built the house in 1988, it's time for a new roof".  Wow, it's been that long already?!  We still refer to it as the new house.  Uh, need to quit doing that as it's been 26 years since we built the new house.  We had fun dreaming of updates we could (wish to) do to the house.  Brings back a lot of memories of when we built the house.  We had fun (really) even with three kids to care of at the time.  It was an adventure for them, also.  And the cost!!  Wow, we should have bought extra shingles in 1988 to save!!  lol

 

I am so grateful for my family and especially my Dad's 90th birthday which will be this week on the 6th.  I am so grateful to still have him in my life.

 

 

Weekly Visit/Halloween

 

Instead of going to April and Mike's for our weekly visit, they came to our house for an early Halloween.  Cash was dressed up as a farmer/cowboy.  He loved his little cell phone from his treat bag.
Chad and Todd were also there.  They love watching Cash play and act goofy.
We had chili and grilled cheese for supper.  I cheated for dessert and bought cinnamon rolls.  They seemed to like them anyway.
I love having all the kids home at the same time for visiting and a meal.

I am grateful for these times in our life.

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